Lesbian Cancer Dating: The Hermit

If you want to lure the crab from its shell, beware -- you'd better be committed to eating its delicate meat. Cancer is a domestic goddess, and she wants somebody to love her mind, body and soul. Otherwise, you're both just wasting her time. If this is you, proceed. If not, move on to a flightier sign lest you get clawed. Cancers simply don't do flirtation -- or, at least, not without plenty of tears and recriminations when the party is over. Usually, however, the crab will not even give you a second glance unless she's pretty sure you mean business. Among her many charms and talents, she's deeply intuitive; and yes, that does work to your advantage in the bedroom.

So if you're persistent and you know how to press the right buttons, you could wind up being the Lilith to her Eve. If you're wise, you'll make yourself available but keep your distance. Out of the corner of your eye, you may see her shuffle from side to side; and just when you think she's angling away, she'll rush to your side and cling for dear life. Cancer is ruled by the moon, which may wax and wane, but stays firmly in Earth's orbit. Even if you have her safely in your net, keep the fire smoking for a while. Keep your hands off and undress her with your eyes. Tell her how sexy she looks in that dress. Take her to a nice restaurant and order the chef's degustation, complete with wine pairings. Or better yet, stay home and show her what you can do in the kitchen. You'll be that much closer to showing her what you can do in the bedroom. She'll melt with anticipation.

When she feels comfortable, she'll surrender to you completely. Note the word, surrender, as most Cancers would rather be ravished than dominant. This is not to say you've found a selfish lover. Far from it -- give a Cancer a little direction, and she'll use her intuition to guide her the rest of the way. Physical love is a deeply emotional experience for women born under this sign, a sensual experience that brings you closer together. Positions that are sexy and intimate, like missionary tribbing, will have her in ecstasy. But that isn't to say she wouldn't try something more adventurous if you asked nicely.

What to expect on an Cancer date

Tears. You're so insensitive!
Dancing on the tabletops five minutes later.
Delicious organic food, served homesyle.
Good chocolate and port for dessert.
A festival of tear wrenching chick flicks.
Subtle flirtation and sidelong glances.
A tender kiss goodnight.

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Still Strong

I am a capricorn and they say I should never date a cancer. But they are wrong she was my bff in middle school. We are now SO in LOVE! Who Woulda knew...I love you Marie your my WORLD!!!

#8 - Marilyn - 04/02/2010 - 01:12

Dadee

I've found cancer and taurus make incredible couples. I am immersed in the seductive and alluring abbys of the cancer woman! They know how to reach into your soul and make love to it. They are determined to satisfy you and when you turn them on intimately you are in heaven! Cancer women have this natural sex appeal that drives me, a wild and passionate bull insane! My cancer loves my sexual talents and knowledge. She loves my strong arms holding her close at night and she adores my ability to introduce new erotic encounters with her. Cancer women, in my opinion are addictive if they want you in a strong way. In other words, if they don't want you or have interest in you, you're wasting your time. I lavish her with gifts and plenty of earned compliments. My lady is sexy, hot, hard working and most of all comitted to me and our relationship. Cancers can get it anytime as far as this taurus is concerned! T&D fa life! ;-)

#7 - Horns n' shells - 03/01/2010 - 17:35

virgo & cancer

my lady is a cancer, and i'm a virgo. she's amazing, we always make each other laugh, we always have something to talk about, and when the talkings done, the silence and holding is the best. even when she just brushes up against me i feel sparks. love her so much!

#6 - Ryan - 12/05/2009 - 14:35

yiup

I am starting something with a Cancer girl... WOWZERS!!!
The best everything... I'm a Scorpio and we seem to mesh so well. Its intense and we can't stop kissing each other. So hot, and this was just supposed to be a fling, but it's way more now!

#5 - veronica - 11/29/2009 - 15:34

whoop whoop

this here made me fall in love with my cancer all over again :)
love you vette baby!

#4 - boo.magrr - 11/17/2009 - 18:59

So wrong

I will admit i can get my feelings hurt sometimes and it is hard to get to the real me. if anything I am the dominant one, in bed and out. I have been called insensitive and unemotional intentional or not

#3 - OSV - 10/20/2009 - 22:19

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