
Ever the deadly archer, Sagittarius aims straight for the heart -- but is seldom pierced in return. If her independence drew you in, it might be what sends you drifting away. Any lover who thinks it's time to start nesting with a Sagittarius after a few sexy romps is in for a rude awakening. Sagittarius rules the ninth house of philosophy, so there's bound to be plenty more exploration and questions, including: What's the hurry? Why destroy the mystery? And, most important: Why should I give up my freedom for you?
So hold off on taking her to meet your parents until, say, the 112th date. Any attempts to forge a commitment before the time is ripe will be seen as an evil plot perpetrated by the patriarchy. Even if it's excruciating, don't call her any more than is absolutely necessary, though the occasional "sext" is always welcome. And remember that a few sentimental phrases go a long way with your philosopher queen -- even her pillow talk is rarely trite. If you want to keep her coming back for more, start her talking about Foucault and sexuality or Kant and beauty. And be honest -- if you're just trying to show off what you know, she'll smell it fromacross the dinner table.
Most of all, don't despair. Your Sagittarian may be a lone huntress, but she's capable of falling hard. Show her you can fall in love without loosing yourself and you're in for a simulating partnership of equals and friends. Platonic? Hardly. The archer gives sex it's due, and there's few times when she's not ready to go. Just because she uses her brain doesn't mean she ignores the animal desires below her waist. Vanilla may be fine at first, she'll want to mix it up. Do something truly wet and wild, like straddle her face; make sure you return the favor. If all else fails, use your arms, legs, fingers and imagination to make her see you're special. Sagittarius will always appreciate a sexy, creative lover.
What to expect on a Sagittarius date

We 1st met when my friend was dating her and while I was involved w/ an ex. Once my friend and the sag broke up she confessed to me that she had real feelings for me and that she wanted to give "us" a shot. I was still involved w/ my ex but I knew what I felt for the sag.
We ended up hooking up one night at a party and once I sobered up I told her that I had made a mistake and that I was not a cheater but had cheated and it could never happen again.
My ex eventually confronted this sag what her gut was telling her and the sag told so she found out about it and broke up w/ me. I blamed this sag for ruining my life up until like a lil over a year ago.
Since last year we have been in each other's company because she has been dating ANOTHER childhood friend of mines for the past several yrs(what a coincidence) and now I find myself in her shoes wanting her as bad or probably more than she wanted me back then. If I didnt know any better I would say im in love w/ her whole being. She is amazing in every way and wouldnt hurt a fly which is why I know her feelings were real.
I am 110% sure that I could be better for her. I deserve her and she deserves me but the situation makes it unapproachable and I dont know how much more I can hold it in. The chemistry is still there and there is no denying that BUT...her gf is KINDA my friend and im not that kind of person.
The strangest thing about this whole thing is that 8yrs ago this shoe was on her foot. She was friends w/ my girl w/ feelings for me. This sag wouldnt hurt a fly if she didnt have to so I know it was hard for her to do that. I dont have her balls...actually im just not so convinced this will work. HELP! WHAT DO I DO?! I wouldnt even think to do this to anybody but my heart knows what it is and I believe my heart